What are they thinking

So on a never ending quest to find love, a date or even a possible flirt, I decided to see what the infamous craigslist had to offer. Was I ever in for an eye popping shock. Are men desperate, low or just so out of it that they truly believe that women are going to instantly email back a response of yes I will jump into bed even though I know nothing about you. I looked at CL for about two weeks and the ads were basically the same ones repeating over and over. The best ones were the ones asking where are all the real women? Hmm obviously not on this sight. So tell me people what are your thoughts on where to meet people especially when one is not going to jump into bed on the first date. (Call me old fashioned but momma always said don't give away the milk for free, sugar make him buy the cow first).